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« on: Yesterday at 01:29:57 PM »

I thought that this topic could potentially warrant a poll but looking at how often people might be depressed and how long it may last would require too many options.

Anyway, simple question really requiring a less than easy answer.  Some days I feel depressed but not all that often. Maybe twice a week and it may last for say a day or so. Why?  The usual things. Money, relationship issues, work related stress and (there's no hiding) the low you can somethimes feel from alcohol..........
Sometiems if I can't find an explanation for why I feel down I generally just categorise the feeling as 'depressed'. Maybe it's something else I/we feel?

Anyway, I have far more many good days than bad and in that respect I'm lucky.
What about you?
Oh, and I feel slightly depressed today and I've not touched a drop.   
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« Reply #1 on: Yesterday at 01:42:12 PM »

feel down often...with the usual concerns...money, job...living in London's a major bloody one as well.

get depressed a few times. usually when a problem has got on my mind too much. best way i find to get out of it is to go the gym or play footy, clears the mind, gets the adrenaline and endorphins flowing and i feel grand again....
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« Reply #2 on: Yesterday at 01:43:20 PM »

I only get beer remorse if i get completely hammered.

I'm a very jolly person...hence the name.  But when i have been at my lowest, I'd still just say I was blue.  Depression is a strong word that gets bandied about far too much these days.  The sugar rush of a Mars bar can pick most people out of what they call "depression".  That's not to belittle anyone who thinks they are depressed, just to point out that depression is a whole lot more than getting over being dumped or owt.
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« Reply #3 on: Yesterday at 01:46:18 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.

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« Reply #4 on: Yesterday at 01:48:03 PM »

sometimes get down, but then just blow £500 or so on clothes and feel better. I think that means I'm a woman...
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« Reply #5 on: Yesterday at 01:49:06 PM »

I dont get depressed more grumpy/moody.  I have been on top form lately which feels great.  I think i managed to get rid of it.  Going to the gym helps, tho I haven't been lately. 

Work is ok, unless I get made redudant like, so we'll see.  Other than that nothing really gets to me.






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« Reply #6 on: Yesterday at 01:49:32 PM »

Yes of course I ever feel depressed and Im sure everyone does.If not,there wouldnt be suicide cases.For me,there is a lot of reason why I feel depressed and the main cause is my school work stress,I cant stand it.
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« Reply #7 on: Yesterday at 01:50:58 PM »

Yes of course I ever feel depressed and Im sure everyone does.If not,there wouldnt be suicide cases.For me,there is a lot of reason why I feel depressed and the main cause is my school work stress,I cant stand it.
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« Reply #8 on: Yesterday at 01:53:29 PM »

I get depressed alot, suffered with it in my early 20`s, mine was drug related then. Now its only triggered when someone I know dies.  My partner has had manic depression for 2 years now and that has had me bordering on it myself tryin to get her through it.  Off to Belgium in November to get her some Plastic Surgery which should stop 50% of the cause of her depression.
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« Reply #9 on: Yesterday at 01:54:22 PM »

I only get beer remorse if i get completely hammered.

I'm a very jolly person...hence the name.  But when i have been at my lowest, I'd still just say I was blue.  Depression is a strong word that gets bandied about far too much these days.  The sugar rush of a Mars bar can pick most people out of what they call "depression".  That's not to belittle anyone who thinks they are depressed, just to point out that depression is a whole lot more than getting over being dumped or owt.
Interesting comment Happy Face regarding depression being a strong word bandied about too much.  Dictionary describes depression as:
A feeling or spell of dismally low spirits: blues, dejection, despondence, despondency, doldrums, dolefulness, downheartedness, dumps, dysphoria, gloom, glumness, heavy-heartedness, melancholy, mope (used in plural), mournfulness, sadness, unhappiness.

Many of us experience these feelings every week (or for some, days) of our lives.

It all depends upon your own interpretation of what depression is as to whether you feel it or not I suppose?
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« Reply #10 on: Yesterday at 01:54:44 PM »

the misses has PND - loads of prozac kicking around if anyone wants a deal Wink
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« Reply #11 on: Yesterday at 01:57:49 PM »

I was fine until I read this thread...
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« Reply #12 on: Yesterday at 01:58:57 PM »

Oooo, that's a bit heavy.

I went through a tough time a few years back with depression.  I'd been to university and got my degree then went into a job related to my degree.  I hated it.  I found it stressful and generally unfulfilling.  I was drinking loads to try and blot everything out but that obviously made matters worse.  My doctor put me on sleeping pills and signed me off work for two weeks but I ended up not going back.  I was really difficult because I felt like I had failed myself, failed my parents and everybody who cared about me. 

About a month later I got a job on the production line in a factory.  I absolutely f****** loved it.  I gradually started to get my confidence back and I was able to work out what it was I actually wanted in life.

I've been relaxed and happy enough for the past couple of years now.  I suppose I just know myself better than I used to.
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« Reply #13 on: Yesterday at 01:59:55 PM »

To me depression is an all-encompassing feeling that doesn't have a cause.  It angers me (only a little, but anyway) when one says "I'm depressed" and people ask why.  It's just a very dark lens and everything through it is s***, including your view of yourself.

Thankfully I'm fine right now. Smile
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« Reply #14 on: Yesterday at 02:01:07 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.
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and I say that in the knowledge that certain admins want me gone, in the face of their rank f****** hypocrisy in the face of pieces of s*** like yourself, blatant WUM's like NE5, blatant wankers like Jay Jay Sea, and all other 12 year old cocks"
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« Reply #15 on: Yesterday at 02:02:26 PM »

I only get beer remorse if i get completely hammered.

I'm a very jolly person...hence the name.  But when i have been at my lowest, I'd still just say I was blue.  Depression is a strong word that gets bandied about far too much these days.  The sugar rush of a Mars bar can pick most people out of what they call "depression".  That's not to belittle anyone who thinks they are depressed, just to point out that depression is a whole lot more than getting over being dumped or owt.
Interesting comment Happy Face regarding depression being a strong word bandied about too much.  Dictionary describes depression as:
A feeling or spell of dismally low spirits: blues, dejection, despondence, despondency, doldrums, dolefulness, downheartedness, dumps, dysphoria, gloom, glumness, heavy-heartedness, melancholy, mope (used in plural), mournfulness, sadness, unhappiness.

Many of us experience these feelings every week (or for some, days) of our lives.

It all depends upon your own interpretation of what depression is as to whether you feel it or not I suppose?

I see it as a clinical term.  Anyone claiming to be depressed without a diagnosis gets short shrift from me.
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« Reply #16 on: Yesterday at 02:09:18 PM »

Don't think I've ever been depressed. Of course, I've had spells where I'm not in the best of moods, but far from depression. Think I've got, and always have had, quite a decent life, with friends and family being there if I ever needed them Smile
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« Reply #17 on: Yesterday at 02:12:05 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.


There is certain criteria a doctor uses to diagnose depression.  I have read that some doctors hand out anti-depressants to easily. I can guess what TT is getting at.  Real depression is when you cant even get out of bed, you hate yourself. I never truely understood it until I had to take my misses to a mental home for a few days to stop her killing herself.  She also went psycotic and tried to kill me in front of the kids.  Doctors diagnosed her as depressed. So I suppose when someone comes on here saying I hate school, im depressed it be-littles what REAL depressed people feel.    

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« Reply #18 on: Yesterday at 02:13:54 PM »

I can understand people getting hacked off about people claiming to be depressed because their goldfish died or something.

What really hacks me off though is people who have no idea what depression is and say things like, "How the f*** can he be depressed? He's got loads of money".
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« Reply #19 on: Yesterday at 02:19:33 PM »

I think the rule is that if you know what's made you depressed, you're not depressed.

But I'm not a doctor.
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« Reply #20 on: Yesterday at 02:27:05 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.


Now i didn't mean it like that. I'd love to talk openly about it, but feel i cant really do so in a place like this, or any place really. I do let my emotions come out quite a lot on here, but depression is something i've tried to hide for many many years, and failed, it actually made things worse. What i'm saying is i don't know how people can or will take what am saying and possibly cast judgment on me. Although from what Rebellious has posted in here i feel a little less apprehensive about the whole thing.
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« Reply #21 on: Yesterday at 02:35:53 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.


Now i didn't mean it like that. I'd love to talk openly about it, but feel i cant really do so in a place like this, or any place really. I do let my emotions come out quite a lot on here, but depression is something i've tried to hide for many many years, and failed, it actually made things worse. What i'm saying is i don't know how people can or will take what am saying and possibly cast judgment on me. Although from what Rebellious has posted in here i feel a little less apprehensive about the whole thing.

I wouldn`t try too hard too explain it TT. I can`t fully grasp what my misses is/was going through and I lived through it with her. She still finds it near on impossible to fully describe it.
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« Reply #22 on: Yesterday at 02:43:23 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.


Now i didn't mean it like that. I'd love to talk openly about it, but feel i cant really do so in a place like this, or any place really. I do let my emotions come out quite a lot on here, but depression is something i've tried to hide for many many years, and failed, it actually made things worse. What i'm saying is i don't know how people can or will take what am saying and possibly cast judgment on me. Although from what Rebellious has posted in here i feel a little less apprehensive about the whole thing.
Fully understood chappy. This is quite a sensitive subject, already stirring up much personal emotion and a forum such as this one (or any for that matter) can be dangerous places in which to expose one's feelings. Some days I want to just write down my s*** and post it but fear of over-exposing myself stops me..........
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« Reply #23 on: Yesterday at 02:47:06 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.


There is certain criteria a doctor uses to diagnose depression.  I have read that some doctors hand out anti-depressants to easily. I can guess what TT is getting at.  Real depression is when you cant even get out of bed, you hate yourself. I never truely understood it until I had to take my misses to a mental home for a few days to stop her killing herself.  She also went psycotic and tried to kill me in front of the kids.  Doctors diagnosed her as depressed. So I suppose when someone comes on here saying I hate school, im depressed it be-littles what REAL depressed people feel.   



I suppose, but again thats not really what i mean. I'd never knock someone who felt depressed about the slightest thing, not at all. Different things effect people in different ways. If school, work or your appearance is getting you down, it can be a massive thing, and these things snowball and can become huge, almost life stopping, even life ending.

What am saying is generally people do not understand mental health issues, and are very ignorant to the causes and most certainly the effects it can have on people and their families. I've experienced this 1st hand, and cannot see a place like this forum, or any forum being a place of true understanding of the whole thing. Like i say i'd like to talk about it, but i feel not many would understand, and don't really want to get too deep into it because of that. I might however be underestimating people, but i doubt it.

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« Reply #24 on: Yesterday at 02:50:33 PM »

Too many pricks on the forums to talk openly about this subject, but its something i've been dealing with for the best part (10 years) of my adult life.

I'm better now than i ever have been, even though things are pretty tough ATM, but that really says it all compared to where i was, i am coping and actually leading a life, which for a while i wasn't doing at all.


That is some statement TT with a hint of anger in there somewhere.  What pricks and when talk openly about this subject and on which fora (do you mean this one alone?)?
Apologies if this has p*ssed you off but are you directing your comments at anyone in particular or was that just a general statement?  I kind of feel that I maybe should halt this thread as I am not an authority on what real depression is.


Now i didn't mean it like that. I'd love to talk openly about it, but feel i cant really do so in a place like this, or any place really. I do let my emotions come out quite a lot on here, but depression is something i've tried to hide for many many years, and failed, it actually made things worse. What i'm saying is i don't know how people can or will take what am saying and possibly cast judgment on me. Although from what Rebellious has posted in here i feel a little less apprehensive about the whole thing.
Fully understood chappy. This is quite a sensitive subject, already stirring up much personal emotion and a forum such as this one (or any for that matter) can be dangerous places in which to expose one's feelings. Some days I want to just write down my s*** and post it but fear of over-exposing myself stops me..........
Admire Robellious brutal honest and open account all the same....

That really sums up what am saying.  Thumbs up
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